Struggling To Find The Words

Did you ever find yourself wanting to write about something that happened to you, but you struggled with putting it on the paper?  A real-life traumatic event that scarred you forever and maybe changed your life? Were the emotions and content more vibrant than what was in your thoughts?  I have.  

I have a story inside me that needs to come out, but I am struggling with getting everything on paper.  I don’t know if it is fear that is my barricade or trying to explain the feelings enough to paint a picture for the reader.  This story would be a healing step that I really, really need and want to take, but the fear and rehashing of the memory are actually quite terrifying; yes, even after all these years.

I sit down to start writing and just don’t know where to start.  Do I use fake names or real names and just say they are fake?  Do I want to relive and repeat these memories again and again in my head?  The “what-ifs” are fighting a battle inside me that neither side is currently winning.  I try very diligently to focus on why I need to write this story and it helps a little, but then once I get certain scenes on the paper and reread my words; my chest tightens and my head hurts, then here come the tears.

Is reliving something terrible that happened in your past really worth putting it on paper for the world to read?  Would I then become “just another statistic”?

These thoughts keep preventing me from this story, but I really feel deep down inside that it has to come out, it must come out for my own sanity.  The healing may ultimately require that I document my past to make my future stronger and healthier.

Have you ever struggled like this?  What helped you overcome your barriers? 

~T

Reviews, New Release Lists, and You

There are many of us that spend literally years writing books to share with the world.  I for one have spent several years trying to complete a story that is near and dear to my heart, but have yet to find the courage to type “THE END”.  One of the many ways to support independent authors is to write a review for them, talk with them, help them out, and encourage them.  Readers also want to know when the next big release is coming out and when they can get their hot little hands on their favorite author’s work.  These are all great and very back-patting for those of us struggling to compete in this vast array of new versus old, romance versus sci-fi, etc.  Let’s stop competing and help each other out.

There are many different sites online where you can go to leave a review and hope that the world sees how much you either love or hated a story.  These are also removed at free will bythe sites where you can leave your review.  Why not go straight to the source?

Authors – have a place where your fans can leave reviews on your sites or be able to send them to you.  Have a place where your fans can interact with you about your work.  Don’t leave it in the hands of someone or something that can remove reviews, pirate your hard work, and not let others know when your next new book is coming out.  Create your own “new release” email list.  Create a spot or a way for folks to be able to leave reviews directly to you.  Get involved with other authors and writers to share what works and what doesn’t work.  Find new ways to get involved and stay involved.  Don’t leave the fate of your hard work in the hands of anyone else. 

~T

Indie Challenge – Show Your Support

Do you ever find yourself caught in a “frump” or situation that keeps you from writing?  Life happens and we all deal with various things every day that disparages us from meeting deadlines or getting the word count that we all want by the end of the day.  The struggle is definitely real and persisting, or so it seems.  How do you overcome this?  Do you reach out to others for advice?  Do you push through and battle the infringement head on? 

How do you as a professional and friend of other authors provide guidance and help to those who are struggling with their writing?  Do you brush it off and say, “well I am not having any trouble; they’ll get over it” or do you help solve the problem?

This industry is increasingly becoming saturated with the “dog-eat-dog” approach that we experience in all realms of life.  No one wants to help their competition.  It seems that no one is willing to help their colleague get through whatever life is throwing at them and support them. 

For this industry to thrive and be supported by those who purchase our work, wouldn’t it be great if they saw how indie authors supported each other through all aspects of life and craft?  I think we are all missing the opportunity to be the leaders and not the followers. 

How are you providing support or helping your adversary?  If you were in a situation and needed help, would you ask your rival?  Being a writer is something uniquely genuine to the person putting the words to paper.  Let’s face it, we are not mind readers.  I cannot “steal” your material and you cannot take mine. 

Indie challenge to all who read this…reach out to someone who is struggling and offer then a helping hand.  If you are the one having a difficult time; ask for help.  Let everyone out there know that we are here for each other and helping each other.  We are all great at what we do and the hating and shame need to stop for this art to survive.  Be a team player, give help where it is needed, offer assistance, and share with each other. 

What ways can you provide help to other indie authors?  Are you struggling and need help?  What ideas can you share with others who are having a rough time?  Can you help them with their cover for free or a reduced price?  Are you an editor who is looking to fill in a slot of time, maybe free of charge or for a lower fee?  Are you a formatter who can help out?  Even something simple like sharing social media posts provides a great deal of help to others.

~T

Ebooks and How To Stay Involved

Do you only offer ebooks?  Are you looking for ways to stay involved with your readers/fans?  Below are some options to help you… 

• Do an ebook signing video and upload to your social media sites. 
• Use swag such as bookmarks, photos, posters, etc. of your book cover and sign those.
• Use swag such as bookmarks, photos, posters, etc. of you holding your work sign those.
• Use swag such as bookmarks, photos, posters, etc. of you holding your work displayed on an e-reader device and sign those.
• Have your reader take a picture of themselves holding your book and sign them.
• Offer to take a photo with your reader and sign the photo.
• Keep your fans and readers in the loop/involved with your work and future works.  Get your readers involved in your stories. 
• Mention your fans/readers in your blogs or during the e-book signing event.  Especially by name; this makes them feel more important.
• Use your social media sites to share the photos of your fans/readers while they display your work.
• Use contests to win signed swag items or free copies of your ebook.
• Get your fans/readers involved in spreading the word about you and your book, use contests to inspire them or give them something for free.
• Brag about your fans/readers on your social media sites and online places.  Remember, it isn’t always about you, but your fans/readers too.
• Take advantage of blog interviews and return the favor for other authors.
• If your fans/readers have businesses, support them.
• Video virtual tour for new book releases and distribute via all social media routes.
• Video book blurb with author for each book and distribute via all social media routes
• Be inventive and find other ways to display your ebook and yourself so others can see you.

What are some other ways that you can stay involved with your readers with ebooks?

~T

Let Your Work Speak For Itself

How do you prepare your work when you are sending out books or manuscripts and such to potential clients? Do you print it on special paper? Do you package it snuggly in a box? Are your materials prepared in such a manner that maybe you are spending money on unnecessary supplies to try to make your work appear nicer? Do you wrap a huge rubber band around all the pages of a freshly printed manuscript, cram it in a large yellow envelope, throw a letter on top, and call it a day?

Are you taking a risk that spending money on this extra fluff may end up in the trashcan next to your manuscript? Absolutely you are. I say use the KISS method when preparing your books and manuscripts – keep it simple silly.

If you want to catch their eye, do it with the work itself. Make sure your introduction letter is spot-on perfect, even if it means spending a few extra dollars to have this edited and appropriately worded to catch the reader’s eye. Use words that are meant to draw the reader in – remember your writing skills. Also, remember that your manuscript needs to be spotless or book for that matter. Whatever you send needs to be able to do the work for you - not the fluff, colored fancy paper, pretty bows tied around the huge pile of paper, frills, bells, or whistles. Let your work speak for itself.

Catching the readers eye with the material intended to draw them in works two-fold. The information they are reviewing or reading will catch their attention through your artful skills in writing, plus you can save your money that you would have spent on all of the frilly stuff. If your work is enough to catch the readers eye right off the bat, then you will have the most lucrative career in writing and your work will speak for itself. 

What are some other ways that you can help encourage others sending their manuscript to a publisher?

~T